The MIAM typically lasts about an hour and provides an opportunity for you to inform the mediator about your situation and the issues that require resolution. The mediator will explain the mediation process and present alternative options for reaching agreements.

At the conclusion of the meeting, the mediator will assess whether your case is suitable for mediation, and you can then decide whether you wish to proceed with mediation or explore other avenues for resolving issues. Additionally, the mediator can offer information about other services that may provide assistance and support. 

Upon agreement, the mediator might refer you to other organisations that can offer help, such as counselling services, debt advice, or resources on cooperative parenting after separation, where relevant.

If you have children aged over 10, the mediator will discuss their rights to have their opinions considered. This is a crucial aspect of the process aimed at supporting the children's health and well-being, as well as facilitating parents in making informed decisions. Research indicates that involving children in this way brings tangible benefits to both children and parents as they navigate decisions for the family.